Reviewed · TOKYO TOURS
All We Can Drink and Make Friend Can Come Alone Party in Shinjuku
This Shinjuku party is interesting because it turns a tricky first night out into a structured social plan, not a random bar search. I like the unlimited drinks during the core window, and I really like that the vibe is built around icebreaker games and easy conversation. One consideration: it is a standing style party, so plan to be on your feet.
You get a simple setup for meeting people in Shinjuku, without needing strong Japanese skills. You will also see a real language angle, with people using games and casual chat to practice.
The main drawback is also the easiest to fix, it is not a sit-and-relax dinner party. If you want a quiet, seated experience, this is probably not your match.
Key Highlights You’ll Feel Right Away

Unlimited drinks from 19:30 to 22:00 included in the party fee
Solo-friendly format designed to help you start conversations fast
Wristband system to guide matching and keep topics flowing around 19:30
Icebreaker games like Uno and Jenga to lower awkwardness
International crowd, plus Japanese locals mixing in a single group night
EXBAR TOKYO plus stop as the main hangout for the evening
A Solo-Friendly Shinjuku Night Built Around Easy Conversation

If Tokyo nightlife intimidates you, this kind of event is a smart antidote. You are not expected to magically find friends at a busy bar. You show up, get pulled into a group rhythm, and let the night do the work of introducing you.
I like that the focus is practical. Drinks are included during the key time window, and the group uses games to keep conversations from stalling. That means your Japanese practice has a reason to happen, not just a place to happen.
The crowd is set up to mix people with different backgrounds, including Japanese locals and international visitors. The goal is simple, break the ice, talk, and keep it fun.
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Price and Value: What $70 Really Buys in Shinjuku
This party costs $70 per person, and the fee includes all taxes and fees. The biggest value piece is that alcohol is included as a free-flow (all you can drink) option during the event’s core drinking time, 19:30 to 22:00.
Now, Tokyo bar pricing can add up quickly when you are paying drink-by-drink. Here, you are buying the structure plus the drinks together. You also get a planned social schedule that helps you avoid the “I came alone, now what” feeling. For many solo visitors, that peace of mind is worth a lot.
Two other value factors matter. First, the party is timed for a Friday night slot in Shinjuku, so you are paying for prime social hours. Second, the event duration is about 2 hours 30 minutes, so you are not stuck forever waiting for the group to gel.
Timing in the City: Friday Hours That Keep the Night on Track

This experience runs on Fridays, from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM. In practice, you can treat it like a clean evening block: arrive, get oriented, mix with people, and enjoy the drinks window that runs inside that time.
The event lists an approximate 2 hours 30 minutes duration, which fits well with the reality of a meet and social flow. You should plan to arrive close to start time so the group games and introductions happen while the room is still building energy.
Also, there is a specific moment tied to the wristbands, around 19:30. That lines up with the party start, and it is a hint that the organizers want you to use that first stretch to connect, not just hover.
EXBAR TOKYO plus: Where the Social Energy Happens

Your night centers around EXBAR TOKYO plus, the main stop where you gather and get into the party flow. This is the kind of venue choice that makes sense for a language-and-friend-matching event. The goal is to keep everyone together long enough for conversation to start, but not so formal that it feels like an interview.
Because it is a standing style party, the layout is built for moving and mixing. You are less likely to get stuck beside the same person the entire night. Instead, you can shift, rejoin different groups, and keep the social momentum going.
You should expect a loud-and-social environment where people talk with body language, simple phrases, and plenty of pointing at game pieces. If that sounds tiring, you might still enjoy it, but try to pace yourself and take short breaks when you need them.
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Wristbands and Icebreaker Games That Actually Create Connections

This party uses a wristband system to help people connect by intention. You select a wristband color, and you can find other people with the same color to talk about 19:30. The example categories include:
- Orange: for fun time
- Green: language friends
- Pink: single
- Yellow: talk with same gender
- Blue: others, you can write down your purpose
That system matters more than it sounds. Left to your own devices, finding a conversation topic in a new city can be awkward. Here, the wristband gives you a ready-made prompt. You do not need to invent small talk from scratch.
The party also uses games like Uno and Jenga. Games are useful because they create short bursts of interaction. Someone explains a rule, you show what you know, you laugh when it goes wrong. Then the game moves again, so you are not trapped in one long, difficult conversation.
It is also a language practice angle, not just a social mixer. The event is designed to encourage people to practice Japanese and other languages in a low-stress way. One person noted they used English and Japanese practice through the exchange environment, and the friendly atmosphere helped people talk without feeling judged.
And yes, staff support helps. One attendee specifically called out Quyn as amazing. That is exactly what you want at an event like this, someone keeping the energy positive and the flow moving.
Unlimited Drinks, But With a Time Window You Should Plan Around

Alcohol is included as all you can drink during 19:30 to 22:00. That means the event is not “drinks all night until you pass out.” Instead, it is structured to cover the peak social hours.
This matters for your planning. If you want a full Tokyo night after the party, you can treat those drinks as your planned start. After 22:00, you will be on your own unless you have other plans booked separately.
If you do not drink much, you still get a lot out of the games, the icebreakers, and the chance to meet people. The social structure is the main product. Drinks just remove a common barrier for solo visitors, the fear of walking into a bar alone.
How the Crowd Feels: International, Friendly, and Built for First-Time Visitors

The crowd is intentionally mixed. You will meet people from Japan and other countries, and the event is designed for solo visitors. That combination makes it easier to talk. Even when your Japanese is limited, people will often be working through English or simple shared phrases too.
People also describe the atmosphere as relaxed and easy going. That tells me the organizers are not forcing a rigid script. You are guided into interactions, then you get room to choose who you talk with and how long you stay in each conversation.
Age range comes up in feedback too, with a note that many people seemed to be in their 30s on one particular night. That is not a guarantee, but it gives you a clue about the tone. This is likely to feel more like a social meet-and-talk event than a youth-club scene.
And if you like the idea of returning to refine your language practice, you might appreciate that the format supports repeat visits. One person shared it was their second time, which suggests the organizers keep it engaging.
What You Should Expect During the 2.5 Hours

Here’s the rhythm you can plan for, based on how these structured parties typically run in venues like this and how this one is described.
First, you arrive and find the group at EXBAR TOKYO plus. You pick your wristband color and start with the setup that helps you connect quickly with others. Then the night transitions into icebreaker moments, with a focus on mixing people rather than letting small cliques form immediately.
Next, the games come in. Uno and Jenga make conversation inevitable, even for shy people. You can switch groups when the game ends, and you have a natural topic for follow-up once you start recognizing people’s names.
Finally, the party closes out near the end of the drinking window and the event’s time block. At that point, you will probably have a few contacts you want to keep talking with. If you want to continue the night, it helps to have an exit plan ready, like where you might go next in Shinjuku.
Who This Party Fits Best (And Who Should Skip It)
I think this is a strong match for you if:
- You are in Tokyo solo and want a guided way to meet people
- You want to practice Japanese or help others practice your language
- You like games, casual conversation, and a social format that moves
It can be less ideal if:
- You want a seated, calm dinner style experience
- You hate standing for the whole interaction window
- You prefer silent sightseeing plans over nightlife social time
If you are the type who loves planning your days but struggles to plan your evenings, this is the kind of activity that fills that gap. It gives you a social plan without needing you to be the extrovert who starts every conversation.
Practical Tips Before You Go
A few small moves will make this easier and more fun.
1) Choose your wristband with intention
If language practice is your goal, pick the category that matches. That one decision can save you lots of awkward explanations.
2) Wear comfortable shoes
The party is standing style. Your legs will notice.
3) Keep your Japanese expectations friendly
You are practicing, not passing an exam. Lean into short phrases, smiles, and game talk.
4) Plan to arrive on time
The wristband conversation timing is tied to 19:30, so arriving late can mean missing some of the best mixing energy.
5) Use the staff and the games
If you see staff like Quyn guiding the flow, follow the cues. Games are a shortcut to friendships because everyone shares the same moment.
6) Have a simple next step after 22:00
Since drinks are included only during the core window, decide beforehand if you want to continue elsewhere or call it a night on a good note.
Should You Book This Shinjuku Solo Party?
If you are traveling solo and you want a night out in Shinjuku that is built to help you meet people fast, I would book it. The reasons are straightforward: unlimited drinks during a defined window, games that break the ice, and a setup that supports conversation even with limited language skills.
It also has impressive social proof: a 4.9 rating with 359 reviews and 99% recommended. That usually points to consistent organization and a friendly crowd fit.
Just be honest about your style. If you want quiet comfort, skip it. If you want a fun Friday plan that gives you new friends and real practice time, this is a very good value for a solo traveler in Tokyo.
FAQ
How much does the Shinjuku party cost?
It costs $70.00 per person.
How long is the experience?
The duration is about 2 hours 30 minutes.
When does it run?
It runs on Fridays, with the hours listed as 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM.
Where does the party take place?
The main stop is at EXBAR TOKYO plus, and it is near public transportation.
Are drinks included?
Yes. Alcoholic beverages are included as all you can drink during 19:30 to 22:00.
What is included in the price besides drinks?
The price includes all fees and taxes, plus admission to the party.
Do I need private transportation?
No, private transportation is not included, so you will handle getting there on your own.
Do I get a wristband?
Yes. You select one color wristband, and people can talk based on the wristband color around 19:30.
Is there free cancellation?
Yes. You can cancel up to 24 hours in advance for a full refund.
Is this experience suitable for most travelers?
The information states that most travelers can participate.
FAQ
How do the wristbands work?
You choose one wristband color for your purpose, with examples like fun time, language friends, single, same gender talk, or other purposes.
What games are part of the party?
The party includes games such as Uno and Jenga.
Do I need a printer ticket?
No. The experience uses a mobile ticket.
Is confirmation provided after booking?
Yes. You receive confirmation at the time of booking.
What should I bring to get the most from the event?
You should come ready to socialize and participate in games and conversation, since the party is standing style and centered on meeting people.
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